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Play out your worst fears with your friends
Practice with your friends. Have fun being as playfully cruel to each other as possible as you act out trying to approach each other in a bar. Practice all your worst-case scenarios up front so if it happens in the real world it will probably just be funny.
Keep it in perspective
Before you march across the room, I’d like you to consider a couple of factors. Firstly, the person you’re about to approach may well have the worst case of bad breath you’ve experienced, they may have a laugh that sounds like a braying donkey, they may be married, they could be a drug addict, or heaven forbid they might even be boring. It’s highly unlikely that they are as perfect as you hope.
Do not respect your shyness
Develop the ability to say ‘yes’ to the most ridiculous and scary offers (non-life threatening!) life has to offer you, to the point where it becomes a little shocking for most of your friends. Deliberately seek out situations that make you shy or embarrassed so you can begin to master those feelings. If you respect shyness it will always win and will seriously limit your life.
Change the voice in your head
It’s possible to shut that voice off and you need to know how. That little voice inside is directly connected to your own feelings of self-esteem. If you are constantly having those sorts of negative conversations, you’ll NEVER get yourself to make the approaches you need to find the partner of your dreams. Even if you did, you’d be so busy gritting your teeth, trying to make a good impression that you’re going to come across badly and earn yourself another rejection. I know how painful that can be and I’d like to show you how to make sure it never happens again.
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