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The wife is not a chattel nor a personal property that can be dealt with in any manner desired. The wife is a human being and very much a partner without whose contribution married life may well prove a failure. It is not the maintenance of the wife alone nor meeting her daily and occasional needs that may suffice for the wife's mental growth and contentment. Physical gifts and ornaments may meet the need for a time but hardly create a permanent base. It is the little acts of kindness, the small tokens of devotion, the off-hand commitments of acceptance and coexistence that count most and keep the female partner happily preoccupied.
Firstly, the etiquette of treating each other courteously and with respect is among the musts. Secondly, mental help is essential. Whenever it is possible, the two partners should supplement and complement each other to achieve the greatest harmony for the family. No work is demarcated as such, and wherever there is a gap and necessity, one should help the other according to need. The husband is the pace-setter since he is the head of the family and any initial move is to be expected from his side. If he is well-equipped in this art, he would know how to impart training to his wife without offending her.
Offences are hardly forgotten. They may disappear from the mind for the time being but at dark moments of married life, in the face of tiffs and disagreements, they come to the surface and appear with redoubled ugliness. The husband is physically the stronger partner but married life cannot be equated with a dominated existence because issues are formed by tiny sentiments and pile up to make the concrete block of happiness or calamity. The husband's show of strength in the marital sphere is evident in his patience, endurance and understanding. His calmness and purposefulness would annexe to the family the crown of dignity, hope and ambition, aiding the husband and wife to encounter the pitfalls of life.
Mere show of affection is not enough and no matter how artificially with perfect etiquette the husband and wife behave before others, it is they themselves that would count in the ultimate analysis. The real offence committed against the family and the wife, in particular, is the neglect that the average male may be blunt enough to allow to seep into the relationship. The family tie may grow more and more tenuous and fragile, if this lapse is not remedied in time. Cara and attention are the best gifts a husband can give his wife and in his married life manners, he cannot afford to omit these. The show is also necessary and respectful treatment before outsiders or in public is the first and foremost etiquette. Also, t& love his wife is the duty of a husband and no mature husband would find it below his dignity to show his. affection to his wife before others.
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